Pleasing everyone.

Ok, so I know a LOT of bloggers have different types of content, like me, for example, Gaming, vlogging, Pokemon, harry potter series, and Max & Harvey…Possibly even more! I\’m into loads of stuff, which seems great…. Until You have that dilemma of pleasing every single person/fan with your content.

There\’s nothing WRONG with posting all those kinds of content because I LOVE every single one of the things mentioned in the list! However, it\’s pretty obvious, and again, there\’s nothing wrong with this, not everyone does. Not everyone is into the exact same things I am. The point is

We\’re all different. 
but that\’s where it becomes complicated.

To put it simply, people follow and subscribe to you because of your content. a specific type of content, to be exact. Maybe they\’re into your gaming videos or harry potter series, rather than Max and Harvey or Pokemon. SO, that\’s what makes finding something to post really difficult. Because some people, including myself, are the type of person who wants to please everyone. To keep people happy and to keep followers, I can\’t be the only one who feels a little downhearted when your follower count goes from 410 to 409.  I feel like: I was a 410, why do I need to go backwards? Down? Then I worry every time I post if someone will unfollow me. So I try to please everyone again. -It\’s a vicious cycle.

But the thing is you can\’t please everyone.

If every time I post or upload a photo, or maybe a vlog, or basically every single type of video I love and try get every franchise I like in there all in one go, or even try to mention them all in a single video, that would be exhausting. I\’d just end up hating everything I\’m supposed to \”Like\” -Imagine wearing harry potter clothes, whilst drawing pokemon, talking about Max and Harvey. It\’d be a mess! It suddenly becomes a lot of effort to please everyone, and if I do say so myself, a lot of WASTED effort. It wouldn\’t bring me the happiness YouTube does anymore because I\’d spend my time with this worry of pleasing everyone. Every hate comment would send me into this downward spiral. And I\’d feel useless. Then it happens All over again 

Surely I\’m not the only one, here! 

But my advice is this: Don\’t worry about pleasing EVERYONE, please yourself first and foremost, Think: Would this make ME happy?  Why do I like this? If so, then that should be good enough for people who truly care about you, and your content. And if that doesn\’t help: 

Another thing is to treat every unfollow as what it is. Finding the people who like YOU, just for YOU! If you feel a little down-hearted about the numbers decreasing, (who wouldn\’t?!) Just get into the habit of thinking. \”Hey, That\’s one less person I have to please!\” Even if it doesn\’t get you that follow back, it should keep the fire going to drive you to create the best content for YOU, that everyone who cares will enjoy. 

Because at the end of the day. If YOU\’RE not Happy, NOBODY\’S happy! 

and Remember, Your content is what you should care about! Just do YOU! 

Infinite xoxo

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