Things are boring…? create a buzz!

Hey guys! A super quick blog today, as I haven\’t really been active… oops!

But I assure you, I haven\’t forgotten about you! Today\’s blog is what to do when things online get too \”boring\” I\’m pretty sure you know what I mean? When you get that \”Why did I even do this feeling?\” No likes, comments, nothing to post? views dropping? Things slowing down? Yup, THAT kind of boring. 

So how to combat it? EASY, just read the title! 

Create a BUZZ!

1) changing it up. Change/Remake old and outdated things so they\’re all shiny and new. Think of it like… when someone comes to school with a new haircut. That kind of new. Same person and principles, just something different people WILL notice. Maybe try a new channel art, mix up your playlists, new videos, perhaps even a whole channel makeover!
2) Getting out there! This is a great tip for procrastinators like myself. It can be as simple as simply taking part in an online community, commenting on a couple posts or videos, supporting your friends\’ channels. Just something that will get you seen, and make you feel good in the process, too! Having that energy and will power is really important. 
3) Work on your social life! Though with COVID, you can\’t exactly to partying, but staying social is a great way to being noticed -You could send messages to people you might not have talked to in a while, a \”long time to see!\” text. or following Step 2 This will get your phone beeping with at least some messages and responses. Respond to people\’s stories and posts and find new opportunities to keep you busy.
4) Understand the Algorithms. Ok, a technical one here, but understand exactly how your posts are promoted and what makes them stand out to specific social media can really help! For example, posts on Instagram that are saved and shared do better than ones with more likes but with fewer shares and saves. So maybe that\’s the reason your current social media status is…. not the best currently 
My biggest tip is to simply: Relax about it! If things aren\’t buzzing, it\’s OK, take a break and just use the time where your social media isn\’t constantly blowing up to simply just live your life… ILR.

Give it a go next time things in your life feel… way too boring! Soon enough your back on track and living a new, shiny social life. 
See you soon 🙂

Infinite xoxo

Pleasing everyone.

Ok, so I know a LOT of bloggers have different types of content, like me, for example, Gaming, vlogging, Pokemon, harry potter series, and Max & Harvey…Possibly even more! I\’m into loads of stuff, which seems great…. Until You have that dilemma of pleasing every single person/fan with your content.

There\’s nothing WRONG with posting all those kinds of content because I LOVE every single one of the things mentioned in the list! However, it\’s pretty obvious, and again, there\’s nothing wrong with this, not everyone does. Not everyone is into the exact same things I am. The point is

We\’re all different. 
but that\’s where it becomes complicated.

To put it simply, people follow and subscribe to you because of your content. a specific type of content, to be exact. Maybe they\’re into your gaming videos or harry potter series, rather than Max and Harvey or Pokemon. SO, that\’s what makes finding something to post really difficult. Because some people, including myself, are the type of person who wants to please everyone. To keep people happy and to keep followers, I can\’t be the only one who feels a little downhearted when your follower count goes from 410 to 409.  I feel like: I was a 410, why do I need to go backwards? Down? Then I worry every time I post if someone will unfollow me. So I try to please everyone again. -It\’s a vicious cycle.

But the thing is you can\’t please everyone.

If every time I post or upload a photo, or maybe a vlog, or basically every single type of video I love and try get every franchise I like in there all in one go, or even try to mention them all in a single video, that would be exhausting. I\’d just end up hating everything I\’m supposed to \”Like\” -Imagine wearing harry potter clothes, whilst drawing pokemon, talking about Max and Harvey. It\’d be a mess! It suddenly becomes a lot of effort to please everyone, and if I do say so myself, a lot of WASTED effort. It wouldn\’t bring me the happiness YouTube does anymore because I\’d spend my time with this worry of pleasing everyone. Every hate comment would send me into this downward spiral. And I\’d feel useless. Then it happens All over again 

Surely I\’m not the only one, here! 

But my advice is this: Don\’t worry about pleasing EVERYONE, please yourself first and foremost, Think: Would this make ME happy?  Why do I like this? If so, then that should be good enough for people who truly care about you, and your content. And if that doesn\’t help: 

Another thing is to treat every unfollow as what it is. Finding the people who like YOU, just for YOU! If you feel a little down-hearted about the numbers decreasing, (who wouldn\’t?!) Just get into the habit of thinking. \”Hey, That\’s one less person I have to please!\” Even if it doesn\’t get you that follow back, it should keep the fire going to drive you to create the best content for YOU, that everyone who cares will enjoy. 

Because at the end of the day. If YOU\’RE not Happy, NOBODY\’S happy! 

and Remember, Your content is what you should care about! Just do YOU! 

Infinite xoxo

Perfection, and when things just aren\’t.

There are moments in everyone\’s life when everything is good. Going smoothly, too smoothly, in fact, Basically, just Really well. everyone has those moments, the ones, frankly, which are too good to last.

But what happens when you go through a rough patch?  

Where things are starting to head downhill, slowly but surely. and All you can do is watch it. Looking back at what was and what it IS. I mean, that\’s off-putting to anyone. The Memories of the little specks of glory, and then turning to face the fading sparks that you feel.

Someone once said: Perfection is this line, this straight line, Our lives constantly go up and down, occasionally hitting this one line, those tiny moments of glory. But we can\’t ever stay there, because before you know it, life moves again.

Pretty deep, huh? But I feel like it\’s true. People say \”Nothing is perfect\”  but I disagree. Perfection is as unique as a fingerprint, if you\’re a gymnast, perfection is preforming and getting a gold medal at the Olympics, if your a YouTuber, like me, it\’s having your content watched and acknowledged by millions. If you a writer, perfection is holding the very first copy of your book in your hands…

Before I go rambling, the last thing I want to say is this.

When things aren\’t perfect, like, you\’ve had a injury, your views aren\’t what they once were, you have writer\’s block.

Look back 

Look back at those moments when your life did hit the line, maybe landing a sweet double twist, or knowing that the views are skyrocketing, having written the one gripping passage that you love.

And then look ahead 

I don\’t mean at the fading specks. when your life and \”the line\” are parallel, I mean after that time, when the line moves. Because it will (Believe me, if it didn\’t, life would constantly be boring, sure it\’d be \”perfect\” But in a way, it would just be the new normal)

So, do all you can to change the line, and stay strong, because if you truly love something, the downs are balanced out by the ups. Or even exceeded. So, stick with it, and keep going. Even if you are forced to watch those sparks fade.

Because sparks never die 😉

infinite xoxo

Top 3 Why people might unfollow you

Hey, guys! 
Today we\’re talking about followers.

Ok, so first I have to put my hand up to being slightly disheartened when my follower count goes down even by 1 or 2, so that is the point of this mini blog post. WHY people might unfollow you!

The first thing to remember is not to take it to heart, think of it when you unfollow someone, you don\’t mean it out of spite (well, mostly!) You don\’t want to cause any drama, and neither do they. Now, with that in mind, here is a list of reasons why people might unfollow you…

1) Your content isn\’t what they want. it\’s nothing personal at all! Let me put it this way, say you used to be really into sport, so that was your Instagram feed. Someone else sporty follows you for that kind of content, and then you get into some else, say… fashion, the sporty person might unfollow you because they couldn\’t care less about cuts and patterns. You have every right to have your feed the way you want too, but it\’s the same with everything: if you put yourself out there, don\’t expect everyone to like what you\’re doing!

2) Spam we\’ve all had that person who goes on holiday and posts 1,000 photos in a row of their luxury getaway, or posts masses of photos on the daily, first of all. #jealous and secondly, of course, your holiday was amazing, but do we need to see every moment? At 1000 different angles? It just means people have to scroll through every single post before actually getting to something new. And anyway, surely if all you did was take selfies, it couldn\’t have been much of a holiday… the point is, Just be wary of how often you post and don\’t be surprised if your following might decrease with constant spam.

3) Way too many photos of you, ok, another place I put my hand up. I love the odd selfie marathon, but I don\’t go and post them all to Instagram, I pick maybe 3 max that I love and share them, this means that\’s it\’s a win-win, I get likes and sweet comments, and others can scroll past easily, no fuss. So what would happen if I DID post all 100 of my selfies? Well, it would get boring, who wants to scroll through pictures of somebody else\’s face 24/7 especially if they\’re a stranger.

Thanks for reading! Feel free to comment some more reasons below, I\’d love to hear them 🙂

infinite xoxo

Surviving ONLINE school!

Heya,

Sorry I haven\’t posted in a while! I hope your all staying safe, as always! 🙂 Today\’s blog is about how to survive virtual school. So a lot of us right now are having online lessons due to isolation and social distancing, which can be a good and bad thing, though we\’re still being productive, learning and getting work done, I can\’t be the only child who gets easily bored and distracted sitting at a computer or phone screen 5 hours a day, 5 days a week. So, I\’m here with some advice on how to get through your lessons! (Also, actually taking part in your lesson is a good way to keep focused!)

1) Stay focused as long as humanly possible. Ok, although the average attention span in 7 seconds, (and I WISH our lessons were that short sometimes -imagine!) It is VERY tempting to open a new tab and listen to your favourite music, scroll through Instagram… But do your best, -just getting through a lesson NOT opening Instagram for the whole time is an achievement!

2) Use your breaks for… actual breaks! When you get time off, turn off your screens and just take it easy for a bit. Personally, I grab a snack from the fridge, put my phone on charge and head upstairs to relax, I re-do my hair, a little bit of exercise, and read a book or practise my keyboard/guitar. Since your online a LOT, it\’s best to have an actual break and not do something \”Virtually\” So find your own way to unwind for a bit! -Breaks ARE there for a reason! Once your back to lessons, you should feel just a LITTLE bit more energized. At least until you find it\’s your least favourite lesson next. *Groan* 

3) Get some SLEEP! Ah, my favourite word. If you, like me, need to be up by 8:40 for your first lesson, then sleep is JUST what the doctor ordered. You don\’t want to go through your day grumpy, annoyed and sleep-deprived. Trust me! (It makes point 1 almost impossible!!) I know most people stay up till 1AM, (At least!) I highly recommend getting a decent nights sleep before online school 

4) If you don\’t want to talk, listen! -You don\’t HAVE to answer every question right off the bat, but remember that online school is JUST as important as offline school, so even if you don\’t want to talk, at least do tip number one? -Just remember that you don\’t have to speak if you don\’t want to, -there IS a chat function too 🙂 so do whatever you feel means that you are involved in the lesson, even if that is just typing a single response every now and then, or even braving unmuting for a second.

And that\’s all for now! I hope they were helpful-ish! Stay safe, everyone! x -I\’d love to hear your experiences in the comments below 🙂 Online school is rough, repetitive but it can also be helpful and a teeny bit fun! Do you have any tips? Let me know! 

Bye for now,

infinite xoxo

How to deal with an overwhelming amount of notifications.

Spam, likes, comments, new fans? We all get loads of notifications on the daily, from all angles. Social media, texts, even google! But what happens when we get too many? That\’s where these tips come in! 🙂

1) Block notifications you don\’t want, like ones from Google, the ones from Tiktok you don\’t need, etc. This is a great way to organise your notifications.

2) Check your social media settings, in most social media, there is an option in settings for what notifications you want to receive, turn off the ones you don\’t want -this also works for Email too! Handy 🙂

3) There\’s a do not disturb button for a reason! That\’s a pretty good way of silencing your once non-annoying notification bell 👍

sorry, this was so short, I hope you are all staying well 🙂

Looking after your fans!

Hey, guys! Bit of a quick blog today 🙂

As someone who wants to become famous, it\’s best to start looking after your fans from the start! What I mean by this is: Showing that they MEAN something to you. That you care about them. People are more likely to follow someone who appreciates them, so try to include them as much as possible! Below, I\’ve listed some things to help you get started

Here are my tips:

1) Every so often, I go an Instagram story with a list of followers for people to follow, this ALWAYS leads to a positive response from them, and it makes ME feel nice, too! It\’s super easy and it also means you have content, 3 birds with 1 stone

2) Do shoutout videos. -Simply acknowledging them is really important -You don\’t have to do whole videos, maybe at the start/end of an upload -this also encourages engagement from fans, too! 

3) call them by a \”Group\” names, like Jayden Bartels\’ \”jaybaes\”, and max and harvey\’s \”Millsies\”, I call my fans part of the \”infinite-wolf-gamer studio squad :)\” -Yeah… um, not a lot to work with here! With my channel name and all… But It\’s really fun to do, and It makes your fans feel like part of something.

that\’s all for now! Hope to see you soon 🙂

infinite xoxo

Clean up after yourself! *Social Media Tips!*

Hey guys! Sorry, it\’s been too long… but today, I\’m here with advice on how to make your profile look that tiny bit better.  It\’s simple, yet so effective. 

I call it… cleaning up after yourself! -Ok, it sounds like something more real-life based, BUT, the point I\’m trying to express is: If a video, post, comment or ANYTHING in your digital footprint ISN\’T representing YOU, right now, then consider deleting it! Things like Closing accounts that you don\’t use, and deleting all posts that are old and irrelevant. It may not seem like a significant thing, but it helps your profile look fresh and up-to-date, plus, it\’s less likely for people to stumble upon your old maybe less flattering posts, if, when they google you, it\’s flooded with new, positive results.

It\’s super easy to do this, open up your youtube, Instagram, even Twitter feed, and simply read, watch or looks at what\’s there. Then decide if it still represents you. Though it may feel a bit tedious, it really is worth it in end

Here are some tips on what to delete:

-Posts that just aren\’t You. Nothing really to say about this one, clues in the name. 

-Things that you can\’t finish watching yourself. -This is a great tip, if you want to click off the video before it\’s finished, it\’s best to think why, and private or delete it

-Things that WERE a joke, but now just look bad. -This is A MUST for Twitter, those tweets from 5 years ago you thought were funny? Maybe it\’s best to delete them now…

-Old accounts you had when you were younger. We\’ve all had accounts we post embarrassing things on, if you can find them, it\’s best to delete them. 

I do this regularly, with all social media, and I found It does help! You don\’t have to do it as a daily thing I myself only do it once or twice a month, but if you have time -Definitely something to consider!

Hope you enjoyed my tips! Hopefully, I can write back soon 🙂 See you!

infinite xoxo